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Have you ever wondered if it was natural for human beings to remain sexually monogamous when most other mammals in the animal kingdom constantly practice polygamy. So, why are human beings in general expected to practice monogamy?
There are generally two camps, one that believes in monogamy and the other that does not! Christianity for one preaches monogamy, and that is sometimes the main reason some people practice it. But having said that, I believe that sex without love is merely mating with genitals, but sex with loving intimacy is mating with the soul. As human beings, our sex drives are controlled by more than just hormonal cycling and the phases of the moon. The human sexual response is a very complex, multi-factorial phenomenon that we still don't fully understand.
Sex without love is ok if you're into being in a meaningless affair, also if you like cheap flings and emotionally detached self belittling moments of absolute debauchery. I know of people so addicted to sex that they do so much they don’t enjoy it on its own anymore. They need help from all kinds of chemicals, drugs that numb them into blind submission in order to "enjoy" having sex. I personally would never ever want to be trapped in this kind of a rut.
Sex in a loving relationship is much more fulfilling and satisfying. It is something that can be cherished rather than that low point in life when you indulged in a useless desire of the flesh. Some may call love out dated and out of style but, people in love are way more happy and content. I know I always am.
4 comments:
I think being monogamous in a relationship need to be responsibility and always bare in mind there is certain lines you can't cross over. for me example i always be monogamous for my last 3 relationship always believe in that also by going out with guys that older then me will be good i guess their are ready to settle down, but that don't necessary truth about it.......end up i was hearts broken. Then when i being single for two and half years things kinda changed my point of view in life, i couldnt care much about people feeling and how their view me as a person. but when time go by i kinda start asking myself this is not the way i want my life to be......is meaningless end of the day you don't have some to share you life with. I guess we can't really judge any people without knowing them and when we're not in their shoes we couldn't never understand why people react like this. But...........
That why i believe in, there is always someone special out there for every people....just that it might not be easy to find the special some one. When people found it i guess most people do be monogamous. i think marriage is important in a relationship without it is like dating someone for the rest of ur life. example if i date you for few time and you become my boyfriend and it just stop there without anything like something missing
My friend, I like this reflection. For whatever reasons, people must take responsiblity and accountability for their action or doings. That's what I can say.
Catch up again.
simply like yr posting and comments!
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